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8 Ways in Henderson & Boulder City to Take Care of Mama Bear

Taking care of yourself shouldn't be considered a luxury. It helps make you a better parent.

By Sandy Wallace and Heather Leigh Carroll-Landon, PhD March 18, 2021

As parents, sometimes it seems we spend all of our time taking care of our family's needs. I don't know about you, but I've found all that "need" eventually makes me burn out if I don't make the effort to take care of myself too.

It's certainly a lot harder to fill your little one's emotional needs if your own emotional bank account is on empty. 

So it's time to focus more on us! Here are eight ideas on how moms like us can find that important time for themselves in Henderson & Boulder City, Nevada:

Enjoy lunch with a friend

Whether you stay at home or work outside the home, lunch is a great time to meet a friend. It helps break up the day and gives you renewed energy to face the rest of your day. Stop by the World Famous Coffee Cup Café before spending the day exploring Boulder City and antique shopping. 

Find your "people"

Join a local parenting group on Facebook, get together with other parents from your child's school, or find a local club or organization that matches your interests. MeetUp offers a variety of ways to connect with local parents through the many different group meet up opportunities. 

Schedule a spa day

Relax, lie back, and feel your everyday concerns wash away with a spa day at The Spa at Green Valley Ranch. Your newly energized self will thank you.

Spend time outdoors

In 1845, Henry David Thoreau wrote "Walden" while secluded in the woods of Massachusetts. More than 50 years later, many scientists agree that Thoreau's meditation on life and nature is spot on. Give nature a try; you won't regret it. Some of my favorite trails for a beautiful meditative walk are Railroad Tunnels and Wetlands Park Nature Preserve.

Try a new hobby or activity 

It's easy to get bogged down with all of life's "busyness." Take a little time away and explore an activity or hobby you've always wanted to try. From individual hobbies like photography or quilting to group activities like paint nights, running, or cycling groups, there's something for everyone. There are a bunch of upcoming events and classes available through the Henderson Libraries. 

Plan a romantic date night

Enlist the help of grandparents or exchange date night babysitting with a friend. Have dinner at your favorite restaurant, enjoy a movie or theater performance, or take a walk outdoors at sunset. Lovelady Brewery offers the perfect place to grab a drink together before walking through Downtown Henderson. Where you go doesn't matter, but having your partner along will make the night special.

Savor the solitude

Spending time alone is good for the soul. Read a book after the kids are in bed or at school, take a walk in your neighborhood alone, or go for a drive to nowhere special. Don't feel like you always have to be doing something "productive."

Check the Henderson-Boulder City Macaroni Kid calendar

There are so many fun family-friendly events in Henderson and Boulder City, Nevada, many of which are also perfect to attend alone, with a friend, or with your partner. Take a few minutes out of your busy life and charge your emotional battery by doing something you enjoy — even if you don't take the kids! 

Taking care of yourself is so important, and not something to be overlooked. I've found that taking care of myself helps make me happier and healthier -- which, in turn, makes me a better mom at the end of the day.